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• To feel better 
• To train my mind to know that hard things are good things
• To set an example 
• For longevity
• To get out of the house 
• To start the day on the right foot
• To listen to good music for a little while
• To have productive alone time

I just wanted to list a few "Why"s in case you were having a hard time finding yours today. Goodness knows I struggle some days but usually one of these pulls through for me ❤️

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I’ve talked about this before but never to its f I’ve talked about this before but never to its full extent. 

6ish years ago I was working full-time as a doctor’s assistant and coming home to an 8-month-old baby while Josh worked 12-hour shifts until midnight. I was so busy that I felt like I was losing my sense of identity. 

That year I decided to start my blog. I kept it a secret for a while because I was embarrassed. I didn’t want anyone to think, “Who does she think she is? We’ve known her for years and she thinks she has something to say??”

But - I loved it! I wrote posts on everything! Random pizza recipes, how my run went that day, marriage, motherhood - I had absolutely no direction. But, I started sharing my blog and got a bunch of great feedback on my marriage and family posts. So, I decided to focus on that because that was, afterall, my favorite thing to write about anyway.

A few months later, I started pinning my posts on Pinterest and educating myself on what it meant to blog well, set up posts for good SEO, how to engage an audience, etc. I had a couple posts go viral on Pinterest and for a few months I had over 350,000 views on my blog/month.

Way late in the game, I started posting to Instagram in 2017. By then we had 2 babies and I had been working with brands for a while so I was able to quit my (at the time) part-time job to stay home with them which I was stoked about! 

Later that year, we packed up our stuff and moved to WA. The original plan was for Josh to find work and for me to continue blogging & be a SAHM. But, after several months later and finding it much harder for Josh to find work than we anticipated, I told him, "Hey, don't feel bad, I don't want you to feel pressure. I will look for work to take some of the pressure off."

So, I started applying for jobs in social media and content marketing. About a month into my search I made a profile on a job-matching platform called @scouted.io. A couple weeks later, I got an email from someone at Scouted saying that they were looking for someone to help with their content and they wanted to have a conversation. 

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divorce & separation, Marriage, Relationships · April 26, 2016

The #2 reason for conflict in marriage

Do you ever find yourself washing the dishes and you look over at your husband and you realize the he, in fact, is not washing the dishes? In fact, he doesn’t seem to be doing much at all… and you’re pretty sure he got a nap today. You didn’t get a nap today. In fact, you did 100 things besides take a nap today. So why are you doing dishes again? Oh right, because you’re the maid, not the wife. Does this thought process pang a little close to your heart? Does it sound familiar?

Hey Chicas,

Do you ever find yourself washing the dishes and you look over at your husband and you realize the he, in fact, is not washing the dishes? In fact, he doesn’t seem to be doing much at all… and you’re pretty sure he got a nap today. You didn’t get a nap today. In fact, you did 100 things besides take a nap today. So why are you doing dishes again? Oh right, because you’re the maid, not the wife.

Does this thought process pang a little close to your heart? Does it sound familiar?

The funny thing is, (besides the fact that it’s completely not funny in the moment) that I was having thoughts a lot like this today. And I had just gotten done trying to encourage a woman who was struggling with feelings of resentment for her husband for something that happened a long time ago, telling her how destructive that can be….

I honestly felt like I had a an angel and a devil on each of my shoulders, remembering my earlier conversation, and then remembering that I felt like a maid at the time.

After a couple of over exaggerated huffs and puffs, Josh asked, “Are you being grumpy right now?” Grasping composure, I replied, “I would like you to ask me if I need help.” So he asked, I said yes, and then he helped.

A few months ago I ran a survey on Living the Sweet Wife for a couple of weeks. When I got to just about 1000 responses, I took it down and looked at the results. At first I was pretty surprised. And then, to be honest, I wasn’t so much. Because I could see the results of this survey in my own marriage. And I’m pretty sure I won’t be the only one.

Here’s a picture of the question and survey results I got:

The # 2 reason for conflict in marriage

As you can see, I asked LTSW readers,

“If you could pick one, what would be the reason for most disagreements between you and your spouse?”

(Take note that 96% of all LTSW readers are women, with the largest age group percentage falling between 25-34 years old, although other age groups aren’t far behind).

So as you could have guessed, the #1 reason for conflict in marriage is all about the monayyy. Ok, no surprise there. But look at number 2! I was sure it was going to be something like communication or lack of passion or something, but nope! It was BAD ATTITUDES! Although I was pretty surprised at first, I ended up nodding my head to that stat once I realized, “Yeah, I guess that’s pretty accurate.” In fact, that’s probably been the number one reason for conflict within my own marriage! (Josh and I are try pretty hard to be on the same page about money stuff).

So what’s the reason for all these bad attitudes in marriages?

I’ve thought about it and I’ve broken it down to two categories:

1 Expectations

For some reason, there’s a crazy side of me that hopes I will come home to a house that is cleaner than how I left it that morning when I left for work. But when when I walk in the door and greet my toddler, who occupied himself by taking out all the dishes from the low cupboards, and my husband who found a few moments peace in letting him do so, my hopes die. I still get this weird expectation that after years of knowing my husband, that maybe today will be the day that he sees the mess without me pointing it out to him.

And while I’m pondering all this in my mind, he’s thinking, “Hey Chels! Glad you’re home!”

And then the grumbling starts happening. “Yeah I bet you are.”

2 Entitlement

When our expectations don’t get met, we start to feel feelings. Feelings like anger, resentment, maybe even disgust. We start to remember all the other times he didn’t jump to help with the dishes in the past. We might even begin to assume that he has no respect for us because he’s probably over there thinking that dishes are our job. We jump to a whole bunch of unfavorable conclusions and we begin to realize that we deserve better.

This my friends, is where it gets dangerous.

This thought of deserving better can catch fire and quickly bring so much pain into a marriage! That’s not to say that we aren’t to have expectations for our husbands, quite the contrary (read my post about putting up with husbands’ crap). But when thoughts of deserving better behavior and treatment turn into deserving someone better, that’s when the real danger rolls in.

This is when giving up on a marriage can become a real threat, even when you thought it never would. I’ve been able to tell that this is starting to happen in a marriage when a husband or wife no longer gets irked by the mess (or the thing they used to get frustrated by). They instead internalize the frustration and add bricks to the wall of resentment they started building a long time ago.

How to protect your marriage from resentment

Communicate

First of all openly communicate your expectations and frustrations with your spouse. So many times when I become frustrated with my husband, I realize that he has no idea why! Try so hard to stay calm when confronting him, however many times you may have brought it up before.

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Meet him halfway

If he’s a repeat offender, but willing to try, ask him what you need to do to make him remember. Josh and I have agreed that if I want something done while I’m away, I need to write it down on a piece of paper and leave it in a place that is extremely obvious. Otherwise, it’s like I never asked.

Give him the benefit of the doubt

Like I said in the first pointer, many times our husbands don’t even realize they’re missing the mark! Instead of assuming that your husband doesn’t care about you or is lazy, try assuming that however unaware, he does love you and respect you.

Don’t be an enabler!

I’ve had so many worn out, frustrated wives come to me telling me how their husbands don’t pitch in, they don’t help around the house, and they’re basically just another one of the children. I can’t help but think, however, that he became a lazy, entitled oaf overnight. If you find that your husband IS being lazy, make his life a little more difficult, don’t just step in because you know he won’t do it and then build up a wall of resentment. Responsibilities in a marriage do need to be shared and husbands do need to serve their wives. He might not be able to make your famous chicken dinner, but if you want a night off cooking, tell him where the pasta is, and if we won’t make the pasta, he can have some toast.

*This needs to be done with respect for your husband still in tact. Husband’s need to feel respected in order to step up to be the men they want them to be. Disrespecting them and tearing them down will only hurt our plans to help him help himself.*

Don’t forget your own flaws

When I find myself at the kitchen sink looking over at my husband on the couch, it’s especially easy for me to remember all the things he doesn’t do in those moments and to think of myself as better and more respectable than him. It’s not as easy to remember all the sacrifices my husband has made for me when I don’t deserve it, how he read books to our son while I slept in the other morning, or how his job provides for our family.

Either way, I don’t know about you guys, but when we said our marriage vows, we didn’t recite the words, “Until I end up doing more than my share of the work.” We said for better or for worse, in sickness and in health. I’m pretty sure we meant it back then, and we’re trying pretty hard to still mean it today.

How do you communicate to your husband that you need him to change something? Do you need to go to ridiculous lengths to make sure he remembers a task? Where have you left notes to make sure he sees them. Share your thoughts in the comments below and Tweet with the hashtags #sweetwife #marriedforlife

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Comments

  1. Rachel says

    April 29, 2016 at 5:10 pm

    Interesting results! I think expectations play a huge role in things. We all need to be better about managing them!

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  2. Christina Rambo says

    April 29, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Truth. This is SO good. SO good. Communicate. Communicate. Communicate. I used to be terrible at communication because I didn’t want to be the “nagging” wife. But… because I didn’t ask for help, I never got it. There is a difference between asking and nagging. My husband helps EVERY time I ask… I just need to communicate. And remembering my own flaws… so important. Great post.

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    • Maryann says

      May 10, 2016 at 2:28 am

      Thank you for pointing out my faults, I never realized before.

      Reply
  3. Kim Munoz says

    April 29, 2016 at 5:27 pm

    I wouldn’t say we argue about this because we are both pretty good at letting go of things but we both have felt this way. I think the fact that I am medically unable to work outside the home has been a big burden on him. I know he doesn’t see it as a burden, but it makes more work for him. So I try harder to keep things up at home. Then when I over do it and am beyond exhausted, I get angry. More at myself than him though lol.

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  4. Christine @ The Mostly Simple Life says

    April 30, 2016 at 1:05 am

    It’s so hard when we’re both exhausted but things still need to get done. Lots and lots of communication help a lot, but it’s really frustrating when I feel like I’m doing most of the chores. It might be our most common argument, but we’re getting better about it.

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  5. Erica @ Coming Up Roses says

    May 2, 2016 at 2:44 pm

    This is SUCH a good, well-thought-out and well-executed post girlfriend. And it’s so TRUE. I’ve found expectations that go uncommunicated to be the worst in my own relationship. When you think/feel something, it’s just better to calmly bring it up and talk it out and NOT feel entitled to anything…it’s all about that teamwork and communication!

    Coming Up Roses

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  6. Amy says

    May 3, 2016 at 2:17 am

    We are currently dealing with this in our relationship. We just had our third baby and I feel like I’m DROWNING with everything there is to get done around the house. I finally realized that I couldn’t do things the way I did with two kids, the third adds a whole other dimension! I needed my hubby to help out more, so I asked him to help with specific chores instead of vaguely asking for more help. He got really defensive and offended, which I expected, since it’s happened before. He thinks he is doing his best right now. How do I communicate that I really need more help without him getting defensive?

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    • Chelsea says

      May 3, 2016 at 6:09 pm

      Hi Amy! I’m glad that you’re being honest with yourself and your husband with how you feel. Many times our husbands can become defensive when we ask them to help out more because they feel as if they’re not providing enough. I would say to first affirm your husband and make sure he knows you appreciate everything he does, and then be honest about how you feel like you’re drowning under the work of having a third child and taking care of your home and you’re at a loss to know what to do. After that is communicated, if your husband still really feels like there’s just no way he can contribute to taking on more responsibilities around the house, it might be necessary to readjust what is a “normal” standard of living in your home. That might mean not making sure the toys are put away each night, or having your children learn how to do some age-appropriate chores like cleaning up after themselves. Sometimes readjusting your expectations, as hard as it might be at first, is all it will take to not be overwhelmed by the housework/management in front of you.
      I hope that helps, Amy! I’ll be praying for you and your husband to find a solution that honors God and each other. Thanks for reading the blog and commenting!
      Chels

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    • Sarah Taylor says

      March 16, 2017 at 10:39 am

      Amy, your husband sounds a lot like mine. I need the same advice.

      Reply
  7. Kim~madeinaday says

    May 4, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    Great post and very thought provoking and yes I am guilty of the bad attitude! Stopping by to let you know you are being featured on Friday’s P3 Party post! Have a great week! Thanks for pinning!
    Best,
    Kim

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  8. Valerie says

    May 15, 2016 at 5:06 am

    Love your blog and your posts, Chelsea! You have a wonderful ministry here!

    Reply
    • Chelsea says

      May 18, 2016 at 4:47 pm

      Thank you Valerie! I love yours too! Thanks for joining me on Pinterest!

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      • Valerie says

        May 19, 2016 at 1:30 am

        I would love for you to share this post tomorrow at the #100HappyDays Link-Up. Here’s the link if you’re interested.http://www.cordof6.com/100-happy-days-30/

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  9. Healing Mama says

    June 20, 2016 at 6:29 pm

    I really love this post! I can relate. This actually is the number 1 conflict in or marriage. I swear we get into arguments about helping with house work once a month. I really need to think of a way to figure this out! Great post!

    Reply
  10. Beth says

    January 30, 2017 at 12:00 am

    After decades of marriage, we still struggle with his cleaning. We even went to marriage counselling over it. I think that its hard wired in him not to see or do..as hard wired as it’s in me to do too much. We’ve conquered money issues, retirement, military life, and endless losses but we are really clueless about the do too much/do to little issue around the house.
    Beth

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  11. Cyndi says

    December 25, 2017 at 6:06 am

    Love this post chelsea! especially love the emphasis on not allowing resentment to creep in, and taking practical steps to balance things out, without disrespecting your spouse.

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6ish years ago I was working full-time as a doctor’s assistant and coming home to an 8-month-old baby while Josh worked 12-hour shifts until midnight. I was so busy that I felt like I was losing my sense of identity. 

That year I decided to start my blog. I kept it a secret for a while because I was embarrassed. I didn’t want anyone to think, “Who does she think she is? We’ve known her for years and she thinks she has something to say??”

But - I loved it! I wrote posts on everything! Random pizza recipes, how my run went that day, marriage, motherhood - I had absolutely no direction. But, I started sharing my blog and got a bunch of great feedback on my marriage and family posts. So, I decided to focus on that because that was, afterall, my favorite thing to write about anyway.

A few months later, I started pinning my posts on Pinterest and educating myself on what it meant to blog well, set up posts for good SEO, how to engage an audience, etc. I had a couple posts go viral on Pinterest and for a few months I had over 350,000 views on my blog/month.

Way late in the game, I started posting to Instagram in 2017. By then we had 2 babies and I had been working with brands for a while so I was able to quit my (at the time) part-time job to stay home with them which I was stoked about! 

Later that year, we packed up our stuff and moved to WA. The original plan was for Josh to find work and for me to continue blogging & be a SAHM. But, after several months later and finding it much harder for Josh to find work than we anticipated, I told him, "Hey, don't feel bad, I don't want you to feel pressure. I will look for work to take some of the pressure off."

So, I started applying for jobs in social media and content marketing. About a month into my search I made a profile on a job-matching platform called @scouted.io. A couple weeks later, I got an email from someone at Scouted saying that they were looking for someone to help with their content and they wanted to have a conversation. 

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