Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. But somehow we woke up in Savannah, GA this morning 🌅 The 4 of us piled into a one-bed hotel room (pretty much like real life 🙄) and Josh and I hung out in the lobby while the kids slept. This morning we explored down by the river and then headed up to Hilton Head since we'd never been. Then by 3 pm, we were headed home again! Love having people who will go on 24 hour adventures with me 🔥
• To be stronger • To feel better • To trai • To be stronger
• To feel better 
• To train my mind to know that hard things are good things
• To set an example 
• For longevity
• To get out of the house 
• To start the day on the right foot
• To listen to good music for a little while
• To have productive alone time

I just wanted to list a few "Why"s in case you were having a hard time finding yours today. Goodness knows I struggle some days but usually one of these pulls through for me ❤️

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@naotfootwear is one of my favorite all time brands for many reasons, but one of the best is the fact that when you purchase any shoe from naot.com, the order is fulfilled by the closest independent retailer to you. How genius is that?? #shopsmall #naottogether #naotic
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Yeh?

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Dinner, Family, Motherhood, Sponsored · October 10, 2019

3 Things to Delegate When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed

Self-love can take a lot of different forms for different people. One of the things I’ve realized about self-care, though, is that it’s often treated as an escape from real life because real life is consistently too much. 

Instead, why not practice balance by working towards creating routines that are easier to handle and overall less overwhelming so that finding an “escape” becomes less and less necessary? 

I get it. That might be easier said than done.

Working from home full time, plus blogging and ‘gramming on the side takes a lot. A large (LARGE) part of my day is spent in front of screens and the moments in between are spent doing what I can for the kids and giving Josh a break.

That being said, I do feel like we’ve more or less hit our stride when it comes to this whole working from home thing. Josh and I have had to learn to rebalance and re-delegate tasks in order to fit our roles and we’ve even outsourced some things to lighten the load on both of us. 

Here are a few of the things we delegate in order to feel less overwhelmed.

Early mornings

Call it delegating, call it taking shifts – it works.

Josh and I have this deal where, during the week, he lets me sleep in until around 8/8:30 am when I come downstairs to start work. I really feel like it helps my overall morale to know that even though I’m going to have a busy workday, I’m at least going to be rested going into it. 

The trade-off? I get up with the kids on the weekends and let Josh sleep in. He (really) looks forward to it and I’m more than happy to let him have a couple later mornings to say thank you for letting me sleep the rest of the week.

#ad It doesn’t always come naturally to ask for help, but stressful feelings can sometimes come from the idea that if we don’t do it ourselves, then it won’t get done (/right). Sometimes being able to open up to the idea that things can happen in ways other than we originally imagined (ie. spending family time over a home-cooked meal that took time that you didn’t have to make vs. spending family time over a meal that was brought to your home), can be really freeing.
When Josh and I are feeling overwhelmed with our to-do list for the day, we start to look for things we can cut out in order to make it easier and have a better day overall.
@bitesquad gives us a chance to delegate our meals to someone else while we worry about spending more time with the kids, or finishing up work projects for the day. I love knowing that even time escapes me, I still have great options like @bitesquad right at my fingertips.
Why not give it a try this week and let me know what you thought! How did your day go knowing that dinner plans weren’t on you?? Download the app and use code MILITARY10 to get $10 off first order of $25 or more & remember to click the box for free delivery for one month!

Clean-up time

From what I’ve found, if we leave tidying/clean up time until the end of the day, it can feel super overwhelming to tackle everything the kids pulled out during the day. It’s amazing the size of mess they can make in just a few short hours. 

Instead, why try to tackle tidying up in shorter sprints throughout the day AND make sure we get the kids involved. Yes, even 2-year-old Evy can understand that things have a place and that they go back there when we’re done with them. We usually have a cleanup time before afternoon naps, before dinner, and then again just before bed. I think this also helps the kids to learn that what they get out, they’ll eventually need to put away. 

Dinner time

Yes, we even delegate dinner. Josh can cook but it’s not what he loves to do. That, and he’s not much of a multi-tasker so it usually ends up taking him a loooong time to finish creating a meal for the fam. I’m also usually still plugging away at work up until dinner time and don’t have the chance to stop and make dinner before the kids (and I) are starving.

This is where our BFF Bite Squad comes in. As much as Josh and I would like to serve home-cooked meals each night, we also believe that creating a routine that works for us, gives us more family time, and eliminates stress is even more valuable. That’s why we use Bite Squad. Whether we’re staying home or out and about, it’s as easy as searching for restaurants on our phones and selecting either delivery or pick-up, and our meal is ready in minutes. And we don’t even have to skip a beat. 

I love the selection of local restaurants on Bite Squad and, honestly, the convenience can’t be beat. I can even have burgers and fries delivered to the park for a late afternoon picnic if I want to!

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed out even by your daily routine, try making a list of 3ish things that you might be able to delegate. I know that it doesn’t always come naturally to ask for help, but this feeling can sometimes come from the idea that if we don’t do it ourselves, then it won’t get done (/right). Sometimes being able to open up to the idea that things can happen in ways other than we originally imagined (ie. spending family time over a home-cooked meal that took time that you didn’t have to make vs. spending family time over a meal that was brought to your home) can be really freeing. 

This week, give Bite Squad a try and let me know what you thought! How did your day go knowing that dinner plans weren’t on you?? 

#ad It doesn’t always come naturally to ask for help, but stressful feelings can sometimes come from the idea that if we don’t do it ourselves, then it won’t get done (/right). Sometimes being able to open up to the idea that things can happen in ways other than we originally imagined (ie. spending family time over a home-cooked meal that took time that you didn’t have to make vs. spending family time over a meal that was brought to your home), can be really freeing.
When Josh and I are feeling overwhelmed with our to-do list for the day, we start to look for things we can cut out in order to make it easier and have a better day overall.
@bitesquad gives us a chance to delegate our meals to someone else while we worry about spending more time with the kids, or finishing up work projects for the day. I love knowing that even time escapes me, I still have great options like @bitesquad right at my fingertips.
Why not give it a try this week and let me know what you thought! How did your day go knowing that dinner plans weren’t on you?? Download the app and use code MILITARY10 to get $10 off first order of $25 or more & remember to click the box for free delivery for one month!

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Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. But somehow we woke up in Savannah, GA this morning 🌅 The 4 of us piled into a one-bed hotel room (pretty much like real life 🙄) and Josh and I hung out in the lobby while the kids slept. This morning we explored down by the river and then headed up to Hilton Head since we'd never been. Then by 3 pm, we were headed home again! Love having people who will go on 24 hour adventures with me 🔥
• To be stronger • To feel better • To trai • To be stronger
• To feel better 
• To train my mind to know that hard things are good things
• To set an example 
• For longevity
• To get out of the house 
• To start the day on the right foot
• To listen to good music for a little while
• To have productive alone time

I just wanted to list a few "Why"s in case you were having a hard time finding yours today. Goodness knows I struggle some days but usually one of these pulls through for me ❤️

@nakd.sport
It might be a couple years later, but we're doing It might be a couple years later, but we're doing the same old stuff still today ☺️❤️
My Valentines 💘 #happyvalentinesday❤️ My Valentines 💘

#happyvalentinesday❤️
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Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. Yesterday morning we had no plans for our weekend. But somehow we woke up in Savannah, GA this morning 🌅 The 4 of us piled into a one-bed hotel room (pretty much like real life 🙄) and Josh and I hung out in the lobby while the kids slept. This morning we explored down by the river and then headed up to Hilton Head since we'd never been. Then by 3 pm, we were headed home again! Love having people who will go on 24 hour adventures with me 🔥
• To be stronger • To feel better • To trai • To be stronger
• To feel better 
• To train my mind to know that hard things are good things
• To set an example 
• For longevity
• To get out of the house 
• To start the day on the right foot
• To listen to good music for a little while
• To have productive alone time

I just wanted to list a few "Why"s in case you were having a hard time finding yours today. Goodness knows I struggle some days but usually one of these pulls through for me ❤️

@nakd.sport
It might be a couple years later, but we're doing It might be a couple years later, but we're doing the same old stuff still today ☺️❤️
My Valentines 💘 #happyvalentinesday❤️ My Valentines 💘

#happyvalentinesday❤️
How many kids did you say you wanted growing up an How many kids did you say you wanted growing up and how many do you have (or hope for) now? Growing up I used to say I wanted 6 kids 😭💀💀 Love these babes but let's just say I have a new perspective these days 😂
The best sandles are the ones you can paint your n The best sandles are the ones you can paint your nails in 5 minutes after you should have already left 😂💅

@naotfootwear is one of my favorite all time brands for many reasons, but one of the best is the fact that when you purchase any shoe from naot.com, the order is fulfilled by the closest independent retailer to you. How genius is that?? #shopsmall #naottogether #naotic
Ok well by the time I'm posting this our snow has Ok well by the time I'm posting this our snow has already melted but the kids woke up to the best surprise today! ❄️❄️
Healthy habits > motivation Yeh? This seamless se Healthy habits > motivation
Yeh?

This seamless set that moves everywhere you do is called The Braden by @nakd.sport 🖤
#ad I love to pack @lifeseasons Clinical Immunity #ad I love to pack @lifeseasons Clinical Immunity Elderberry Drink powder mix in my bag to have on the go. The elderberry drink has vitamin C, vitamin d, and zinc plus the power of 300 elderberries to help increase my immune cell production and activation. PSSST - it also is amazingly soothing as a hot drink in the evening to boost my immune system before going to sleep and allowing my body to recover overnight. Hit the link in my stories to grab a pack of @lifeseasons Clinical Immunity Elderberry Drink and gummies! Use code CHELSEA for 15% off!

#clinicalimmunity 
#lifeseasonspartner
@lifeseasons
I’ve talked about this before but never to its f I’ve talked about this before but never to its full extent. 

6ish years ago I was working full-time as a doctor’s assistant and coming home to an 8-month-old baby while Josh worked 12-hour shifts until midnight. I was so busy that I felt like I was losing my sense of identity. 

That year I decided to start my blog. I kept it a secret for a while because I was embarrassed. I didn’t want anyone to think, “Who does she think she is? We’ve known her for years and she thinks she has something to say??”

But - I loved it! I wrote posts on everything! Random pizza recipes, how my run went that day, marriage, motherhood - I had absolutely no direction. But, I started sharing my blog and got a bunch of great feedback on my marriage and family posts. So, I decided to focus on that because that was, afterall, my favorite thing to write about anyway.

A few months later, I started pinning my posts on Pinterest and educating myself on what it meant to blog well, set up posts for good SEO, how to engage an audience, etc. I had a couple posts go viral on Pinterest and for a few months I had over 350,000 views on my blog/month.

Way late in the game, I started posting to Instagram in 2017. By then we had 2 babies and I had been working with brands for a while so I was able to quit my (at the time) part-time job to stay home with them which I was stoked about! 

Later that year, we packed up our stuff and moved to WA. The original plan was for Josh to find work and for me to continue blogging & be a SAHM. But, after several months later and finding it much harder for Josh to find work than we anticipated, I told him, "Hey, don't feel bad, I don't want you to feel pressure. I will look for work to take some of the pressure off."

So, I started applying for jobs in social media and content marketing. About a month into my search I made a profile on a job-matching platform called @scouted.io. A couple weeks later, I got an email from someone at Scouted saying that they were looking for someone to help with their content and they wanted to have a conversation. 

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