I started my blog in 2015 as a creative outlet. At the time I was working full time, had a young baby, and my husband, Josh was working late shift. What's a better way to fill the time than to pour your heart out on the internet??
But it didn't take time to find out that there was a lot of need when it came to relationships. There's a lot of pain and hurt out there and husbands and wives a like are looking for answers!
I didn't (and still don't) have all the answers. But I made it my goal to search God's Word for what it says on cultivating grace-filled relationships.
Un-surprisingly, I found that there was a lot of correlation to how we live in marriage relationships to how we live out the Gospel in our own lives.
Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
1 Thessalonians 4:11-12
Josh and I met at a Christian university in Virginia when were both 18. We were a typical freshman couple and started dating immediately. 2.5 years later, we said our vows on the windy coast of Washington. 6 months later, we found out were were going to have our baby boy!
Since then, every year has had a surprise.
2013 – I married the love of my life on the windy coast of Washington State.
2014 – We had our baby boy. Yes, it was a surprise.
2015 – Josh got his first full time jobs and I started working for our church and for the first time, didn’t feel like we were “struggling” to keep up with finances. We also finally got plugged into our church and started building a beautiful, Christ-centered community. It’s also the year I started Living the Sweet Wife!
2016 – Josh and I somewhat spontaneously joined a missions trip to Kazakhstan! We also found out were were pregnant with Evy 8 days before we left the country.
2017 – In March, we had our baby girl. In July, we packed up our tiny Virginia home and moved our family of 4 out west to Washington state. We moved in with Josh’s parents in order to pay off my student loans and save for a home of our own.
In 2018 – I wrote Together with Christ, a Dating Couples’ Devotional! A weekly devotional for engaged and newly married couples to go through over the course of a year.
2019 – We paid off much of my student loans, started saving for a house, and reached over 50k Instagram followers!
2020 – We all know the pandemic hit in 2020. Despite it, Josh and I drove our kids and everything we owned across the country to our new home in South Carolina.
Currently, we spend a good part of our days at home; Josh doing hybrid homeschool/private school with the kids, and I typing away at my laptop. We always make time in the afternoons, evenings, and weekends for getting out, stretching our legs, and discovering new places together.
Josh and I love to be active and set healthy examples for the kids, although we do love the occasional ice cream “cheat” night.
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Too many things! A European excursion, possibly adoption, write more books, and build a family homestead are just a few!
a. Listening to podcasts and audiobooks at the gym
b. Making coffee and getting kids breakfast
c. Listening to the Bible aloud while doing B.
d. Jumping into emails and work
e. All of the above
a. A teacher
b. A photographer
c. A stay at home mom
d. Probably B and/or C!
I could never pick just one! I love writing, the gym, photography, painting, baking sourdough, gardening, and trying new things!
Josh and I walk and talk together almost daily and I love that time together. It's also just extremely special to know that someone knows everything about you and still loves you unconditionally.
Josh and I make pour over each morning and I drink it with a generous amount of half and half.
a. A desire to cultivate a loving family and to help others do the same.
b. A love for God's Word and how it can be applied
c. A love of writing
d. All of the above
To locally owned coffee shops, antiquing, hiking, our church, or the ocean!
We attend a local non-denominational Bible church and adhere to their doctrines. If you'd like to learn more, here's a page explaining what we believe more in-depth.
As much as I would love to be able to provide individualized counseling (and hope to in the future), my current work load keeps me from doing so.
Here is a resource that can help you find a Christian counselor in your area.
Yes! I love to join podcast conversations and am also available for speaking events.
Please see my contact page to get in touch about booking a conversation or speaking event.
Find the books I've written here on Amazon. You can also find them at any major book retailer on Audiobook recorded by me.