You asked! I tried these sock curls for the first You asked! I tried these sock curls for the first time last night and I was so impressed!! I decided to freshen them up during Sunday nap and record the process for you.

Literally all you have to do is wrap your very slightly damp hair around a sock and then fold it up over the curls over night. The sock kept slipping out from my hair so I used a claw clip to hold it in place and it wasn't uncomfortable to sleep in. Then I like to brush them out a little and add some texture spray and you're good to go!

 Tag me and let me know if you try it!!
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You ever feel like you're dying for a change and t You ever feel like you're dying for a change and then even everything's changing you're like HOLD ON I DIDN'T MEAN EVERYTHING AT ONCE. Yeah, me neither 🤪🫠
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This weekend the boys are staying with their baby This weekend the boys are staying with their baby sister’s foster family. It’s a nice visit for them to be with her (she is oh so cute and sweet) and it’s essentially a respite weekend for us. 

Man, it’s like I forgot how simple things once were. And I never realized it in the moment, either. Two well-connected children since birth are a heck of a lot different than four kids—two well-connected and two traumatized.

We had a movie night with David and Ev last night (something the boys wouldn't normally sit for) and went for a hike up on Paris Mountain this morning and then got our fav BBQ for a weird lunch/dinner at like 3:30 🤪 Good BBQ doesn't wait for the right time of day 😂

It's a definitely a change of pace from the rigid schedule we keep when the boys are with us and I'll admit it's been nice to slow down at least for the weekend. 

We pick them up tomorrow afternoon and I can't wait to hear how their weekend was with sissy + her foster fam!
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I've held onto this photo and rewritten the captio I've held onto this photo and rewritten the caption a hundred times trying to think of a concise way to describe the last couple months. 

The reality is, it's messy and hard. The best and easiest days are the days where we stick like glue to our routine. The boys do so well with structure. Even rules that they hated at first, they now love bc they've come to expect them and knowing what to expect gives them a sense of control and safety. 

I have to say, I'm so thankful for the training we got before starting this journey bc we use it daily. And then there's times when Josh and I just need to take turns locking ourselves away in a quiet room for a little while just to take a breather. 

We're also learning the level of attention that David and Evy still need from us. We've started letting them stay up an hour later than that boys each night just so they can get some individual time with us and decompress a little. 

I have to admit, it was hard on Josh and I at first. The constant (and I mean constant) opposition, defiance, screaming, hurting, etc. was just exhausting and stressful. But I can honestly say that we've gotten a grip on things and I feel like we're a really strong team. Even in the hard moments, we are way less stressed and we just redirect the kids or give consequences without getting overly emotionally involved in what the harmful behavior was. I know that's vague but you'll have to trust me I guess ha. 

Continue to pray for Josh and I, David and Evy, and of course the boys. Our needs are all pretty different but we need prayer all the same 💗
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Motherhood · March 1, 2016

7 Me Time Ideas for Mamas

 I do still get a bittersweet feeling when I put my toddler to bed. But at the same time, another part of me that I tucked away for a while says, “Yesssssssss.” Here are a couple things I like to do after baby goes to bed, or when someone else can stay with him and I can sneak out the door.

Hey mamas,

So I know that after the working, cooking, cleaning, dipey changing, and booger wiping, there’s not a lot of time- or energy- left for mama.  I want to encourage you and tell you that the role of a mother is a dirty, but such an honorable job, even if you don’t feel very “honored” in the process. That being said, and as self sacrificing as I try to be for my family, I need to do a couple things just for me now and then before I get to the point of total melt down. Know the feeling? Here are a couple ideas to inspire you to get the “me-time” every mama needs from time to time!

Face masks7 Me time ideas for mamas

This is something I do at least once a week. I try to fit it in on days when my husband works late. But sometimes he’s not so lucky. I’ve recently started using the awesome mask called Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay. Yeah, it’s about as cool as it sounds. This face not only clears my pores when I feel a breakout coming on, it also detoxes my skin and is completely natural! P.s. I’m not sponsored to write this, I just really really like it.

Get yo’ hair done

Getting your hair done can get pricy but see if there are any hair schools near you. I’ve found that a lot of the students who are learning really want to do a good job and put a lot of effort into the cut. Plus their instructors come to check on their work. You’d be surprised how many compliments I’ve gotten on a $12 haircut.

Go to Target and buy yourself something pretty

Even if you have to go with the kids, I find that target is way less stressful than visiting the local grocery store. (If I only need a few key things. If we’re at the point of eating dry cereal out of the box or we have jelly but so bread, then a trip to the grocery store is unfortunate, but needed)

Wake up early and get a mini (or full!) workout in

You know how you always wish there was more time in the day to get crap done? Well to be honest, there is, and it’s usually hiding away in the early morning while your head is snug in your pillow. Want more time in your day? Get up earlier! Get a whole “thing” checked off your list before you would normally wake up. For those of you who are already early risers, you probably know the benefits of this first-hand. I always feel like I’ve had a way more productive day if I can just manage to get myself out of bed. Usually picturing the first cup of coffee does the trick.

Keep a secret stash of your favorite snack

Come on moms. If there’s chocolate in the house, we know where it is. Even if it’s not chocolate, we sometimes need a tiny something that makes us happy when it’s been a long day. Sometimes it’s a handful of chocolate chips. Maybs an caffeinated afternoon pick-me-up.

Paint your toes

As a mom, I’ve all but given up on fingernail polish. I mean, I love when my fingernails are done, but it usually lasts 6 hours before then chip. But I will invest time in painting my toes! Having pretty toes, even if they’re not always visible, makes me feel a bit more- polished- if you will. If you’ve been neglecting those phalanges, pay them some special attention, even if you’re the only one who knows it until spring vacation.

Read a book before bed

As much as I love to catch Friends on Netflix after baby goes to bed, reading a book before bed gives me way more closure at the end of the day than staring at the TV does. Not to mention the possibility of learning something new.

So mamas, what sneaky snacks do you keep tucked away where the kids can’t reach? Favorite toenail polish color? Let me know in the comments below! And share with a pal who you know might be needing those few extra moments of me time!

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Comments

  1. Kate says

    March 4, 2016 at 3:41 am

    Brilliant ideas, I chuckled because I do many of them! Need to workout a little more :0) thanks for sharing

  2. Lauren says

    March 12, 2016 at 7:44 pm

    These are such great ideas! I feel a little more normal eating chocolate chips in the afternoon now, haha.

  3. ruthie says

    March 13, 2016 at 12:03 am

    The going to target and gym thing are my go-to’s… I have not done a mask in years! That is next!!

  4. Heather @ Simply Save says

    March 13, 2016 at 1:39 am

    Reading a book before bed is part of my daily routine to decompress from the day!

  5. Erin says

    March 13, 2016 at 2:28 am

    These are great ideas and some of them I already do! I love hiding a sweet treat for those moments when I need a little pick-me-up! I will have to check out our local hair school – such a great suggestion to just get a fresh cut every once in awhile!

  6. Shann says

    March 13, 2016 at 4:59 am

    I totally have a secret stash of little peppermint patties and Hershey’s dark chocolate nuggets with almonds. I need to do a face mask and get my hair done ASAP.

  7. momwithfive says

    March 13, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    Great list. Being a mom of five kids I really need some me time. My favorite idea is the fifth point. I love chocolate!

  8. Heather with WELLFITandFED says

    March 13, 2016 at 5:20 pm

    All amazing ideas and ones we should do frequently. I love the facemask photo! 🙂

  9. Dana says

    March 13, 2016 at 5:32 pm

    I love to get my hair and nails done – it brightens me up a lot!

  10. Jessie Krutsinger says

    March 14, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    Where do you get the mask from that you use?

    • Chelsea says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:24 pm

      Hi Jessie! I bought it from Amazon. I had a hard time finding it in any drug store. I think I included the link in the post to the same brand.

  11. Erica @ Coming Up Roses says

    March 16, 2016 at 2:50 am

    I LOVE this! I especially love the hair tip – I got a student haircut once and it was great for all of the reasons you said. She tried so hard and it was just a fabulous time! And nothing beats a good mani/pedi. 🙂

    Coming Up Roses

  12. Katie says

    March 16, 2016 at 5:01 pm

    Love this post! Great tips! I’m getting my hair done next week for the first time in almost a year and I can’t wait!

  13. Wendy says

    March 17, 2016 at 10:11 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing! I’ve started taking a dance class once a week and, while it’s hard to tear myself away from my toddler, it’s great finding some of who I was before she was around!

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Man, it’s like I forgot how simple things once were. And I never realized it in the moment, either. Two well-connected children since birth are a heck of a lot different than four kids—two well-connected and two traumatized.

We had a movie night with David and Ev last night (something the boys wouldn't normally sit for) and went for a hike up on Paris Mountain this morning and then got our fav BBQ for a weird lunch/dinner at like 3:30 🤪 Good BBQ doesn't wait for the right time of day 😂

It's a definitely a change of pace from the rigid schedule we keep when the boys are with us and I'll admit it's been nice to slow down at least for the weekend. 

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The reality is, it's messy and hard. The best and easiest days are the days where we stick like glue to our routine. The boys do so well with structure. Even rules that they hated at first, they now love bc they've come to expect them and knowing what to expect gives them a sense of control and safety. 

I have to say, I'm so thankful for the training we got before starting this journey bc we use it daily. And then there's times when Josh and I just need to take turns locking ourselves away in a quiet room for a little while just to take a breather. 

We're also learning the level of attention that David and Evy still need from us. We've started letting them stay up an hour later than that boys each night just so they can get some individual time with us and decompress a little. 

I have to admit, it was hard on Josh and I at first. The constant (and I mean constant) opposition, defiance, screaming, hurting, etc. was just exhausting and stressful. But I can honestly say that we've gotten a grip on things and I feel like we're a really strong team. Even in the hard moments, we are way less stressed and we just redirect the kids or give consequences without getting overly emotionally involved in what the harmful behavior was. I know that's vague but you'll have to trust me I guess ha. 

Continue to pray for Josh and I, David and Evy, and of course the boys. Our needs are all pretty different but we need prayer all the same 💗
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